Ini Menurut Saya: Rich Guess Poor Guess

When a rich guest come to the house, I will serve him well.. Only 'well'.. 
When a poor one come, I will serve him best.. Very best..
That's my motto.. No excuse..

Kalimat di atas adalah salah satu quote yang saya tulis di FB, pingin sedikit membahas tentang poor guest dan rich guest diposting kali ini. Ada komen yang menggelitik yang bikin saya merasa harus menulis postingan ini di blog saya. #lirik Zula

Begini kira-kira komen Ajoule (panggilan akrab Zula #sokakrab) "semacam diskriminasi itu mah,miss" (dia murid saya jadi panggilan akrab dia ke saya ya miss #Ajoulesokakrab :p) setelah komen itu saya jawab, dia komen lagi (seneng deh ada yang bikin komen di postingan makin panjang :D) "kalo gitu aku kerumah miss sebagai org miskin ajah" (diiih.. apaan sih Ajoule..)

Komen lain yang gak kalah menggelitik datang dari teman saya yang lain, "kalo aku yg datang, aku bakal diperlakukan seperti apa?" hhhm..

Okay, itu sedikit alasan yang membuat saya merasa saya harus menulis postingan ini. Disamping itu masih ada alasan-alasan lain.

Okay, ini bukan diskriminasi. Bukan membeda-bedakan antara orang kaya atau orang miskin. Sebenarnya pun kata 'orang kaya' dan 'orang miskin' hanya untuk membuat pembedanya terasa jelas. Selama ini dikepala masyarakat kebanyakan bumi Indonesia tercinta ini 'Orang kaya pasti selalu di atas' dan 'orang miskin selalu di bawah'. Orang kaya harus selalu disanjung, dipuja, dielu-elukan, bla bla bla.. seburuk apapun dia, dan orang miskin harus selalu merendah dihadapan orang kaya, bahkan kadang harga diri pun diserahkan hanya demi menyanjung dan memuja si kaya.

Ketika orang kaya datang kerumah kita, coba apa yang kebanyakan dilakukan? Mempersiapkan segalanya, membersihkan rumah, menyediakan jamuan-jamuan yang 'pantas', yang lebih ekstrim lagi kadang rela 'ngutang' demi memberikan yang terbaik kepada si orang kaya. Membersihkan rumah masih okay lah bagi saya. Menyediakan jamuan-jamuan, okay.. Tapi pasti selalu diikuti kata 'pantas' , ditahap ini mereka sudah mulai memaksakan diri. Menyiapkan ikan goreng semisal, untuk makan si kaya beserta keluarganya, makanan yang selama ini untuk diri sendiri maupun anak sendiri saja jarang dikonsumsi.

Tahap berikutnya adalah melakukan apapun demi kenyamanan si kaya, kalau sudah kepepet apa lagi selain 'ngutang'. Betul tidak? (pake gaya Aa Gym) Bukan bermaksud apa-apa tapi saya cuma ingin mengingatkan. Kemudian wajah dibuat semanis mungkin, bibir kiri dan kanan ditarik masing masing sekitar 3 cm.. (Busyet.. Lebar amat..), sampe kadang bikin kepala pusing dan kaku dibuatnya. Setiap jawaban yang keluar dari mulut hanya 'iya' 'iya' dan 'iya'. Untuk sekedar berbicara pun semua serba harus diatur. 'Takut salah bertingkah' katanya.. Huufftt.. #ngelapkeringatsambilngelusdada entah apa yang ada dipikiran mereka.

Kita putar haluan, ketika orang miskin yang datang kerumah kita, coba apa yang dilakukan dan terlintas dalam pikiran? 'Aah, biar saja. Rumah dia gak kalah hancur dengan rumah ini' begitu kira-kira kalau soal kebersihan. 'Aah, makan ini aja udah bagus buat mereka' di meja ada tempe dan tahu. Ketika mereka mulai berbicara mulailah penerima tamu membangga-banggakan diri sendiri dan merendahkan orang lain. huft.. #tepokjidat

Entah apa yang ada dipikiran mereka, mendewa-dewakan orang kaya dan merendahkan serta meremehkan orang miskin yang datang ketempat mereka..

Bagi saya, setiap orang yang berkunjung harus diperlakukan dengan BAIK dan SEWAJARNYA. Tidak perlu sampai harus memaksakan dan merendahkan diri untuk memperoleh simpati, sebesar apapun yang sudah dilakukan pada kita, seperti meminjami uang, mengajak kita berjalan-jalan, dengan perasaan takut kalau tidak melakukan hal yang dapat memperoleh simpati kelak kita tidak akan dipinjami uang lagi ataupun tidak diajak berjalan-jalan lagi. Sewajarnya saja lah, tidak usah merasa seperti hutang budi yang teramat besar.

Jika anda yang berada di posisi si kaya, apa anda mengharap perlakuan seperti DEWA terhadap anda? Saya rasa tidak. Adalah kewajiban si kaya untuk membagi rezekinya kepada si miskin, karena rezeki yang ia terima adalah dari Allah. Jika ingin menunjukkan rasa terimakasih, tunjukan sewajarnya. Berterimakasih lah yang sebesar-besarnya kepada Allah SWT.

Uraian diatas adalah sudut pandang saya, paparan dari kacamata saya. Entah bagaimana dari kacamata anda..

Saya Memasak: I get myself into difficulty

Aaaahhh.. again, I get myself into difficulty when it comes the time to cook.. Can I skip this time.. #begging

I was googling the menu just like yesterday, after opening so many walls I got myself stucked with many complicated recipe ingredient.. #sigh a lot

Texting my hubby would not help anything, he would just say,
"darling, just cook whatever you want.. I will eat them all"
'are you sure??' I whishper in my heart 'Don't you really have some food you hate a lot? Coz last time I cook you kangkoong you just ate a little and left it, hmm?' :D #satire

well, For lazy one like me cooking too complicated one will bring a terrible headache, but I didn't give up.. I try my best on searching one, the most easiest..

#blink-blink GOTCHA!!! I found you.. I said to myself..

This is the original recipe, you can check here:

resep-masakan-Sup-Tahu-Bakso-Jamur

Mine was modified, lol. Got nothing to do but that, coz there are some ingredient I couldn't find.. #sigh

I couldn't find mushroom so i bought bokcoy. Totally different but it's okay.. :D

Okay, now it's time to eat.. Bye for now..

Saya Memasak: Aaah.. I've found another love!!

Lately I find myself doing something daily I rarely did before.. Aaaaah.. I like cooking, it's too premature to call it love but at least I enjoy doing it.. :D

Let me tell you about today's food I cook..

I was so lazy this morning that I don't want to go to the market, aaaahh.. sometimes I love doing it but in other time I find it difficult just to have a step there.. I got stucked.. I'm kind of someone who love to do something easy that everyone can, no need much efford to do so and.. well, that's me..

I plan not to cook today and texted my hubby, sweet-lipsing, 

"What to cook today?I'm so confused.." and he answered, 

"up to you,dear". I dont satisfied, I texted him 

"You doubled  my confuseness". He answered, 

"then soycake must be good", Again I didn't satified with the answer, I texted him again, 

"I got bored of it" he answered, 

"then cook anything you want to cook" *huft* I sighed.. why dont you say, just don't cook.. let's have breakfast outside.. Then I replied,

"should I not cook today" hahahaha.. I finally say that.. eagerly waiting for the answer.. aaaaandddd..

"Of course you have to cook, hahaha.."

Aaaaaaaiisssshh.. what is that laugh for.. huft.. I sighed again and.. opened the laptop and search a recipe.. and I find this..

sweet Chicken sausages

Read the ingredients and found out I got all of them then.. I cooked it.. :D

Auto-biography Saya: It was Nirmala #wink-wink

Before I start, let me introduce myself. My name is Rani, it is Rani Gitayati in complete. Sounds like an Indian name but no, I have not even a single drop of Indian blood though it might be nice to be an Indian.

Well okay, at this time I am going to tell about the name I owned. Rani Gitayati. There is a story behind it.

I was born as the first child in the family. Of course Dad had prepared a name for me. It was NIRMALA.. Hehehe.. It sounds like a name of a character, she was a princess if I'm not mistaken. She had a friend named Oki. These characters appeared in Bobo, a kids magazine when I was a kid (I think it still exist until now). She was a nice and good character, and always helped Oki whenever he is in trouble, she also gave suggestion to him if he made mistakes.

But.. Hehehe.. Mom doesn't want me to have that name, sounds weird to her.. And she doesn't want it. So then Granny gave me a sweet name Rini Gitayati. It was my uncle's name Granny gave when she didn't know whether the baby in her belly was a girl or boy. In fact she really wanted to have a baby girl. Until she knew for sure that the baby was a boy and changed her mind in giving the baby that name. So it means I take my uncle's name.. LOL.. Maybe that is the reason why until now the closest uncle among all uncles I have is him. Hehehe..

Rini Gitayati is a nice name, but then Dad wanted it to be changed to Rani. The reason is that all of his brothers' and sisters' names begin in Ra.. including his name.. So seemed like he wanted to have Ra- on his kids' names, too, for his father did so. Ooooh so sweet.. Then start that day my name is Rani Gitayati. Well, Rani is not a princess like Nirmala, she is even greater than princess and older of course.. Hehehe.. She is a QUEEN (in India: Rani = Queen).. ;P

Is there any story behind your name, too? Go share it.. !! :D

Rencana Saya: Auto-Biography

Planning of making such kind of auto-biography. It is like collecting and tracing the past life memories. Sounds interesting but I don't know much. Some might say it is unimportant for who I am. But I think it is better before the memory decay.

Best luck for me and you. ^,^

Saya Kaget: I'm BACK!!!

I'm coming back after a long, long pause.. *s* someone might say, "there must be something" aaaannndddd... "YES.. You are absolutely RIGHT!!! There is something I wanna tell.. :) #winking

I really love writing and I write all my feeling.. that's my mistake, this time is a very stupid mistake.. but I will never regret in doing that #such a stubborn one.. I am stubborn.. I born that way.. I think it is a bless having such a gift like that.. Did I say GIFT??

Huft.. Okay let me continue.. I wrote about someone.. Was trying to hide it inside words but seems like it wasn't too blur so that anyone can understand it.. Andddddd... that person.. commented below my posting.. :D GOTCHA!!! At first I was trembling for I didn't expect a comment from that person.. But then I set it aside and just never care about that.. Why should I.. Confirming that that one was not her is not right, it is taking back words.. And I'm not that kind of person.. Maybe she is.. ;P What I should do is just.. Forget it and never reply, be silent and have fun.. :):):)

It won't make me stop writing.. It forces me to make another more clever way to hide it.. Well I will try using English again.. She couldn't write and read in English I'm sure.. :D

Mrs. H

The Picture Compilation of the Previous Work

For clearer pictures see previous post.. ^,^

You better have a try on it :)

Tutorial Hijab Saya: In My Gloomy Day Yesterday

Still remember posts before this post written about that aunt? I got a very gloomy day that day.. Well, something good to do in a gloomy day is having a meditation.. Different from other people term of meditation, instead of sitting I did something.. Creating a new style of hijab..

Hahaha.. this is the first time I did it but i think it works.. ^.^

Let me show you all of the pictures we (I and my hubby) took..

The Love Journey of Ours

Well, Let's forget about the people in previous post.. Now I wanna show you all my wedding pictures.. I feel really blessful to have such a nice wedding (it is according to me, I don't know how other might feel about this party)..

Before you see the picts let me share a story about wedding..

Wedding for me was a special moment, we (me and my hubby) were waiting for that moment for years.. We were declaring to go-steady in September 7th, 2005.. almost 7 years i think.. a long journey..

If you close to us i can guarantee that you really can feel and see that our life together is full of love.. ^.^

Below pict is the oldest i could find, there were some older than this one but i forgot where i put them :)

The pict was taken in Batu, a town near Malang.. We love going there with friends and family.. Our fave spot there is Cangar..

<< We were on our way to Cangar and stopped for a while to take pict ^,^

It was taken in 2008 (if i'm not mistaken)


The last time we went there was long ago.. maybe a year ago.. :'(

This one is also another old pict i could find.. It was in my house.. he was outside and i was inside.. :)

Hahaha.. look at my hair, i had just finished straightening it so that it seemed so straight.. ^.^




I will also show you our solo pictures.. hahaha.. :)

These are my picts:

<< The oldest pict I could find, this was when i went to WBL, tanjung kodok, see that stone behind me which looks like frog?? that is why it is called Kodok.. :)

We have been couple but there was a time where we have to spend our time separated to be with our family..

Hahaha.. this one is the last pict I could find before our marriage.. I use this pict as the pict of our marriage certificate.. #wink-wink




These are his pictures:

Just like mine, this is the first solo pict of him i could find.. well, it is editted.. i editted it years ago to be put on his facebook as a profile picture.. ^.^

He really like blue that is why i gave him blue.. :)

As always this one is his last pict before our marriage, this one is also the one he used for our marriage certificate.. :)





There are too many if i put all the picts here one by one, so I decided to compile them and put them in one frame.. hope you can see the love we share together.. (:

Well ya.. We are still waiting other joyfulness God will give us along the love journey.. Hope we will be together till die tear us apart.. Amiin.. :) "Love you, my Hubby" #kisses-all #wink-wink

Pre-wedding Pictures

The Wedding

Me, my hubby and my parents :)

Me, my hubby, his mom and his eldest brother